Anonymous asked: I met this guy online 1.5 months ago. But we've just been hanging out for 2 weeks. (we hung out 5times during these 2weeks, and each time we spent the whole day together) We've been texting everyday. We've kissed and stuff (never had sex and not planning to) I really like him and want to take this relationship to the next level..but idk if I should just bring it up to him or wait for him to ask. Tmr we're having a movie night at his place. Should I talk to him about it tmr?or wait?
If you really like him and you’re ready to attempt to take it to the next step, then I think you should bring it up. Be brave, be confident, and make a move. Yes, you must recognize the fact that it’s possible that he won’t want to move on just yet, but it’s better to have the conversation than to be left wondering and thinking “what if!”
Just talk to him about it in an adult, casual way.
Love,
Jessi
Anonymous asked: I am a girl and cheated twice on my boyfriend by making out with another girl. I feel so terrible about this for obvious reasons and I just feel like a terrible person. I can't rid myself of all the guilt I feel but I just can't tell him because I can't stand to hurt him. Do you think he'd be less mad because it was with a girl?
Well, every guy is different. It is completely possible that he will think its hot or attractive, and be perfectly fine with it. There’s also a chance that he won’t consider it cheating at all, since it was with the same gender.
Although I do believe that you should be sorry, and that this is a conversation you two should have had before you even did anything with another girl (if he considered it cheating or not!), i think you should just be completely open with him and ask him about it. Because, there is also a chance he could be hurt or upset.
It all depends on how exclusive you guys’ relationship together is! Just talk to him about it because, yes, there is a chance he could be less mad.
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